Poor Me!

Ok, so if you make good choices, go ahead and pat yourself on the back....Good Job!!! 

And if you make bad choices, stop whining and blaming everyone else for the choices that you make. I'm so sick of the "poor me" I could scream. 

If you are over 21, and "claim to be an adult". Own it!! You want to drag around that poor me crap for the rest of your life?  Your choices, your fault! 

No one held a gun to your head and made you spend your last dollar on something stupid, so that you cant pay your bills on time, wah!  No one made you dye your hair a stupid color, so that strangers look at you weird... no one forced you to put schrapnel on your face or ink on your body, people are going to look, get over it!! Guess what?  If you look different...(and that is all in the eye of the beholder),  people are gonna look. Its kinda what you were going for when you made the choice to make yourself look the way you chose to look. You wanted to look different....Your choice....live with it. Stop whining every time you get a "look". If you think a big old metal piece in your nose or mouth, or ear, is pretty, who cares what anyone else thinks?, but you can expect that people will look, thats a guarantee, because it isn't pretty to everyone that looks at it. Its just plain weird, ok? My opinion! Go ahead and judge me, I don't care!

Stop dragging around the "its not my fault" sign on your forehead. 

Stop playing the blame game. The game where nothing bad, or negative is your fault, but everything good in your life is because you made it happen. 

You cannot have it both ways, if you take credit for the good, then you must accept responsibility for the bad, or negative, whatever in your life.

In a perfect world, we would all live in harmony, with everyone else, no one would judge, or stare, or look at people weird if they looked weird, we would all accept everyone for who and what they are....but that ship has sailed. That is just not reality.

Its human nature to look at what seems different to you, and think of it as weird, whether you say anything out loud or not, everyone does it. We try not to be judgmental, be we all are, at some level. We all have free will and choices to make. And a different eye for what is pretty or acceptable, or different.

I try to accept people for who they are, and the way they are, and I do try and look beneath the outer level, as much as possible, and for the most part, unless they are whining about their "poor me" life,  I do. Just don't try and change me to what you think I should be, and I won't try and change you to what I think you should be, how about that?

Just get over yourself already, and stop whining about the choices you make. 

I get judged too, but I don't care!!  I'm not trying to impress anyone, .  I'm boring,... and, I don't care!! And I don't whine about my choices.

I do however beat myself up for them sometimes:)